Wedding Update

Malcolm and I have been engaged for more than a year now. We originally planned to get married July of this year, but we decided it wasn't the right time because of Covid. We didn't get too far in the planning process, but since then, we haven't talked about it much, at least not concretely. …

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I Used to NOT Be a Hugger: Why That’s Changed

Growing up, I was uncomfortable with hugging. It felt too personal and vulnerable. And I felt very pressured into awkward embraces with adults. As a young adult, that feeling carried over into my relationships with friends, coworkers, and family. Physical touch was jarring and weird which widened the gap between myself and everyone else. I …

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